Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Noise pollution

If everyone listened and followed the advice their momma gave them, "if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all" the world's noise pollution would be cut in half.

If this looks familiar with any of you it's because it was my facebook status today. Lately at work there has been so much she said he she said (because I work with all females) bull shit going on. What sucks the most is the one person that I thought had my back, I recently found out is doing quite the opposite. After letting it bother me all day, I came to the realization that its really not worth it in the end. I'm not going to get upset, I'm not going to get angry... I'm going to let it be; it is what it is. Does this make me weak? Maybe in some peoples definitions but to me I'm going to be the bigger person. I now know the boundaries set in place by this person and I will forever and always keep those in the back of my mind.

I've also realized that I will always, and I do mean always, be looked at as the bosses daughter. Some, and most, people think that this comes with the best perks in the world. Though it may come with perks, the cons much out weigh all else. They don't have to answer to anything and everything small or large that goes wrong. When they go home for the day they get to leave work at work, unfortunately my work stays in my blood stream. In the end I know that it amounts to nothing less than jealousy.

I'm not going to bad mouth or say anything that I wouldn't say to someones face. If others want to continue to do so about me, that's fine. God is on my side and I have a family that will forever and always stick beside and behind me through thick and thin. Unlike them, I will lay my head down on my pillow at night still holding onto my dignity and self respect. I feel its rather sad and unfortunate that others do not get to do the same because of the choice of words that they decided to let leave their lips and expose into the world.

1 comment:

  1. You go girl!! Don't let them bring you down :)


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